Friday, December 26, 2008

On friendship and changes


It just hit me how much I'll be missing my team at work. I have found friends in them. I guess the hardest part of coping with changes around me is going out of your comfort zone and losing the persons with whom you've grown so accustomed to. Well, I'm not really gonna lose them cause we can stay in touch. But you know, when you're not around one person for awhile, you get used to it and eventually you go your way without being a part of that person's life anymore. It makes me heartbroken to realize that a friendship is about to end before it even blossoms.

I recall a part of the song I really love and I think it poignantly echoes my sentiments. It goes like this:

"We're on the road We move from place to place And oftentimes when I'm about to call it home We'd have to move along Life is a constant change...
The friends we know, we meet along the way
Too soon the times we share form part of yesterday 'cause life's a constant change And nothing stays the same, oh no..."

(excerpt from the song, "Constant Change" by Jose Mari Chan)

7 comments:

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Allena said...

waaahhh!!! you make me teary eyed!!! :( i'll miss you girl!!!

Ane Fallarme said...

Hey there! I hope you had a very Merry Christmas! :D Wishing you a Happy New Year! :D

Don't worry, when you only lose touch with someone when you allow it to happen, so cheer up, I'm sure you'll find a way to make the friendship last... :D

Michelle said...

This is so sad to here. I know what you mean when you work with someone so long you get use to them in your life. It's hard when you don't have them around anymore. I love the lyrics to this song. So sweet. Thanks for sharing.

UmmeAaiman said...

However difficult it may be to accept at times, isn't it true people come into our life for a reason... and maybe to teach us something... and when lessons have been learned they pass us by... and seem to go their own way..

Sometimes we feel sad when people leave us. Sometimes people we don't even know about seem to feel that way about us...

Wish you the best this New Year!

Mike Foster said...

Wishing you a happy, healthy, prosperous, and amazing 2009!

peace,
mike
livelife365
Happy New Year!

alf said...

wishing you the best of 2009. happy new year.

 

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